Find their soft spot. I said soft spot, not weaknesses.

Imagine, you are born in a poor neighborhood. There was no job. Your father was in some gang. Your mother was selling drugs to have money to raise you up. Your father was shot to dead when you were little.

When you grew up, you skipped classes. You joined some gang. You bought and sold drug. Your close friend got shot by another gang. You and your gang seek revenge for him. You went to jail.

It’s like a vicious circle where it’s hard to imagine how things can get better.

But the documentary showed that it’s possible to get better. With lots of hearts sharing lots of pain.